Don't force compatibility
You can't be compatible with everyone. There are people you flow with so well that it will almost seem you've known each other for so long whereas you've only just met yesterday. There are many factors that affects your compatibility with people. Here's a few I know: Language: this is primary, of course. Interest: If you are interested in a particular kind of topic, you will be attracted to people with like minds. Scent: yeah, some perfume can repel some kind of people from you and attract other kind of people to you. E.g, I hate the passion perfume with passion. The smell makes me want to puke(vomit). So, when you see you are not compatible, it's always good to walk away. It's not cutting off, it's moving on! It's good for you and it's good for the person.